Living with a disability should never mean giving up a life rich in relationships, choices, and dignity. Yet too often, administrative procedures, waiting lists, or physical and social barriers take center stage. To refocus planning on the human aspect rather than paperwork, Finandicap suggests thinking around five fundamental pillars. These pillars are not just ideals: they can serve as concrete guides for decisions, projects, and the dreams of your loved one.
1- A Circle of Genuine Relationships
The need to belong is fundamental. Friendship is not a luxury, but a necessity. Having at least one person who calls, listens, or comes over for coffee can transform a day—or even a life. A life without connection is a life at risk. Building a support network around your loved one may be the greatest gift you can give them.
2- A Meaningful Home
A home is not just a roof. It is a place of grounding, identity, and freedom. A space where one can say, “Here, this is my home.” Being able to exercise control, welcome loved ones, and create comforting routines: all of this is essential for well-being and autonomy.
3- A Contribution to Make
Everyone has something to offer. A passion, a routine, a skill. Contribution, even if modest, is a source of pride and self-esteem. Valuing what your loved one can do is a way of reminding them that they are not a burden, but a full-fledged member of the community.
4- The Right to Choose
Making choices, even simple ones, is a sign of freedom. Choosing one’s clothes, activities, or saying no: these are all actions that build identity. Too often, people with disabilities see their choices crushed by organization or overprotection. It is essential to create the conditions for real and respected choices to be possible.
5- Basic Financial Security
Money does not buy happiness, but it enables choices. Being able to invite a friend, dress according to one’s taste, or pay for an activity: all of this strengthens autonomy and dignity. The REEI, specialized trusts, and social benefits are concrete levers that can be activated to ensure a foundation of stability for your loved one.
A Different Perspective
Thinking about the future through these five pillars means choosing to look beyond diagnosis and paperwork. It reaffirms that your loved one also has the right to a full life, at their own pace, with their own colors. At Finandicap, we believe that every life project begins with a simple but powerful question: what would a good day look like for the person you love?